Jay Goodwin

2004 - 2004
LocationPontefract
Age0
Cause of DeathStill Birth
Date of Birth19/12/2004
Date of Death19/12/2004
Visitors1,958 since 03/02/2009
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i lost my baby boy when i was 24 weeks pregnant. i was so excited about having a baby and losing him was the hardest thing i have ever had to deal with. i was only 18 at the time and i found it a very difficult time. when jay was born he weighed 1lb 2oz and he was about 8 inches long. he was very small and i could lay him in my hand. he was a perfectly formed little person born asleep. i miss him everyday and it doesnt get any easier. four years on and it still feels like it was yesterday. love you baby so much xxxxxx


you came.you did not cry.
you did not breathe
we did not expect this
it seems birth had no meaning,or had you rejected us?
they will say you did not live
register you as 'stillborn'
but you lived for me all that time
in the dark chamber of my womb
and when i think of you now
perfect in your little death
i know that for me you are born still
i shall carry you forever
my child,you always were mine,
you are mine now
death and life are the same mysteries.

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hey little mr xxx

hey mr hope your behaving up there just want to ask you to look in on your mummy from time to time because although she is a very strong woman i know your always in her thoughts lots of love little man xxxxxx

Georgina Scargill (Family Friend)

July 28, 2011

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JAY

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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Jay
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.

We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JAY
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bigs hugs from me to you and your family
and friends that you miss you ever day but
in our hearts forever you will not be forgotin
all my love hugs and xxxx from me Sylvie
mommy of Samantha Belanger and
Granddaughter of Albert and Marie-Jeanne
Belanger take care bye for now.
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Sylvie Belanger

December 19, 2010

BIG HUGS JAY

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⋱♰⋰ Angel Day ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Your Angel Day in Heaven ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Many tears will fall for you ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ You touched so many loving hearts ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ There’s so many missing you ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ As you now live in paradise ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Its Heaven up above stay ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Close to all your loved ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ ones For it’s you they ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ miss and love ⋱♰⋰
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⋱♰⋰ bigs hugs from me to you and your ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ family and friends that you miss you ever day ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ but in our hearts forever you will not be ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ forgoten you take care love from me ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Sylvie mommy of Samantha ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Belanger hugs and XXXX ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ bye for now good ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ night ⋱♰⋰

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....Goodnight and God Bless..........
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♥ ♥ ♥ Angel Day bigs hugs from me to you and your family and friends that you miss you ever day but in our hearts forever take care love you bye for now hugs love from me.♥ ♥ ♥

Sylvie Belanger

December 19, 2010

Precious Child by Karen Taylor Good

In my dreams, you are alive and well
Precious child, precious child
In my mind, I see you clear as a bell
Precious child, precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart, there is hope
'Cause you are with me still

In my heart, you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart

In my plans, I was the first to leave
Precious child, precious child
But in this world, I was left here to grieve
Precious child, my precious child

In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope
And you are with me still

In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon,
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart

God knows I want to hold you,
See you, touch you
And maybe there's a heaven
And someday I will again
Please know you are not forgotten until then

In my heart you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart

Caroline Ramshaw

May 14, 2010

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Georgina Scargill (Family Friend)

March 27, 2010

MERRY CHRISTMAS

merry christmas little man xXx

Georgina Scargill (Family Friend)

December 25, 2009

Happy Birthday In Heaven - by Winnie Lovett

"Happy Birthday Jay"
It's sure to be the best one yet,
Though you left us here behind.
Did you think that we'd forget?

Your cake this year, will surely be,
A beauty to behold.
With the icing made of Silver,
And the candles made of Gold.

Yes, your birthday in Heaven,
Will be such a grand affair.
And I know you'll look so lovely,
With a halo in your hair.

The Angels will come from everywhere,
To sing your birthday song.
And I know they'll be so happy,
That you've joined, God's Happy Throng.

No I can't send a card this year,
Or give a gift so fine.
So I'll just send a special prayer,
To that wonderful Son of yours.

Joanne Mum To Alex And Ciara

December 19, 2009

To The Child I'll Never Know - by Gloria Dianne Hall

How can I say Good Bye
When I never said Hello,
Why does my heart grieve
For the child I'll never know?

You were a part of me
For just a little while.
I grieve because I'll never see
The magic in your smile.

I grieve for all the unsaid words
That you will never say.
I grieve that I will never see
You happily at play.

I grieve for all the lullabies
That will remain unsung.
I grieve because I'll never see
Your face gleaming like the sun.

I grieve because you will never know
The comfort of my touch.
I grieve because you will never know
That you were loved so much.

I grieve for all the tomorrows
That will never be.
I grieve because God chose
To take you back from me.

You live among the Angels now
Your earthly mission done,
You will be so dearly missed
Good-Bye my little one. XX

Joanne Mum To Alex And Ciara

December 19, 2009

Born Still - by Unknown Author

Do you know how hard it is
To hold a baby who doesn’t cry?
Do you know how hard it is
To tell that baby Goodbye?

Do you know how hard it is
To look at an empty bed?
Knowing your child should be there
Resting his sleepy head?

Do you know how hard it is
Feeling you’re to blame?
And no matter what they tell you
You'll always feel the same.

Do you know the heartache
Knowing he’s gone for good?
And feeling that you didn't
Do all the things you could.

Do you know how hard it is
To hear that it's Gods will?
Do you know the emptiness
When your child is born still?

Joanne Mum To Alex And Ciara

December 19, 2009

been a long time since i wrote to you, just didnt know what to say. there is never a day that i dont think about you and what you would look like and what you would be doing now. it will be your fifth birthday on saturday, doesnt seem that long ago. i remember you like it was yesterday, holding you when you was born and saying goodbye. it was so hard knowing that i would never see you again. i feel worse now than i ever have about losing you, feel like it has only just happened. will come with some flowers for you on saturday, love you mummy xxxx

Natalie Cain (Mummy)

December 17, 2009
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